If you have recently moved to New Orleans, Mardi Gras with kids can be extremely overwhelming at first. But trust us – you want a Muses shoe!
How to Catch a Muses Shoe (And Other Elusive Carnival Throws)
“A shoe, a shoe, please lady a shoe!!” As a Muses rider, this is the anthem we hear for almost six miles. It’s the sing songy backdrop to our parade from the heart of Uptown to the depths of the Warehouse District. As I enter my tenth year of riding, I still find the enormity and intensity of the crowds a little overwhelming. When you look out into the sea of revelers, there will inevitably be those who stand out. After seeking counsel from my fellow contributors, and members of the other amazing ladies’ Krewes of Cleopatra and Iris, I’ve pulled together our best tips on how to catch a Muses shoe (and other elusive Carnival throws).
Make Eye Contact
Every once in a while, someone will point at me and make direct eye contact, and I will spend the next block trying to send throws their way. It’s amazing how a simple point of their finger and connection with their eyes will turn them from a face in the crowd to next recipient of something special. If they are in close proximity to the float, I will ask them to come closer so I can hand down one of the thirty custom glittered shoes I have among my throws.
Dancing In The Streets
I love to see the joy of Mardi Gras spread through the crowd. When the parade comes to a stop, and we have the chance to interact with everyone, my favorite thing to see is people dancing along with the music from our marching bands. I might even encourage a dance off where the crowd can choose the winner and recipient of the shoe. The basic rule is that the more you are enjoying yourself, the higher the likelihood that a rider will connect with you. So eat, drink, and be merry, my friends!!
Wigs, and Costumes, and Tutus, Oh My!
I am a sucker for anyone who goes all out in the name of Muses. When I spot someone in a fabulous wig with matching makeup and some funky fashions, I really appreciate that they’d join in the celebration the way that they can. So go for it. Try your best Bowie impression or seek out your inner Beyonce, and I can guarantee you’ll catch our attention.
Bring a Sign
There is nothing as eye catching as a sign. But even better than a sign, is a really, REALLY funny sign. There are two that I will never forget. The first was held up by a nice gentleman in his mid-forties and it read, “I do the dishes and give foot massages.” The second was held by an older gentleman in a terry cloth robe and said “I cuddle after…” Hysterical! A shoe is the best reward for a humorous sign!
A Cute Kid and a Tired Mom
When I see a mom huddled behind her tribe, it strikes a chord in me. I know her. She has endured several days in a row without naps and dinners composed solely of things caught off of a float. She has spent the last several hours listening to her children throw snap pops into the street and then fight about who go to throw more of them. She is tired but will keep going because the smile on her children’s faces when they catch a stuffed animal or a light up ring bring her more joy than getting sleep would. She deserves something special from one tired mom to another. Because let’s be honest, with all of the running around she does, Momma needs a new pair of Muses shoes.