If you have recently moved to New Orleans, welcome! New Orleans Mom prides itself on being the premier parenting website for New Orleans, and we have dozens of tips for enjoying Mardi Gras with kids. While sleep is about to go out the window (yep, you need to let go of nap time), you’re about to experience all the magic, memories and king cake. New Orleans Mom has compiled 22 tips for enjoying Mardi Gras as a beginner, a list of insider tips from the parade route, the 10 king cakes in New Orleans you have to try and even how to make an easy king cake at home with kids.
The Virgin Diaries: My Thoughts Prior to My First Mardi Gras
Truthfully, I can’t really fathom what all this Mardi Gras business is about. My one and only major parade experience was when the Miami Heat won the championship. My husband forced me to go to the huge downtown parade on the basis that his beloved team may never win again. Once in a lifetime opportunity he said! Well, it was once in a lifetime for us and every other sweaty person Miami had to offer up. It was about 100 degrees and the lady to my right was breastfeeding her infant against my arm. My husband wondered out loud if her milk would curdle on contact with the air it was so hot. I ended up cutting off my capri pants into shorts because I felt like I was about to stroke-out due to the insane amount of heat radiating off the asphalt. That parade was not my idea of a good time!
You now understand I am skeptical about parades, but let’s talk about New Orleans specifically. Am I expected to believe that an entire city takes a week off and parties in the colors of purple, green and yellow (yes, I know it’s gold but that bright, big bird color really looks more like yellow to me)? For starters, fashionista I am not, but in my opinion those colors do not go together! Then let’s talk about these boxes that people are posting photos of on Facebook. You know, the ones that are perched atop a ladder? Yeah, is this shindig going to be so much fun that I am going to want to purchase a hulking piece of equipment to perch my child upon? Or is this really for their safety? To shield them from the massive party beneath them? Or am I to believe you really went to all the trouble of purchasing (or BUILDING), then hauling, this monstrosity to your chosen place just so your KID can catch some beads? Hmmm…..
On a more serious note, I honestly do have reservations about the safety of these events. Will there be massive crowds? Lots of flashing and craziness? Part of me wonders if I should stick to the Metairie parades, which I have been told are very calm and easy to attend. The more adventurous, experience loving side of me knows that it will be worth it to venture out and experience the real deal Uptown parades. I would also like to thank you in advance, yes YOU, the readers! When the New Orleans Moms Blog asked you what a Mardi Gras novice such as myself should know, it overwhelmed me the number of you that wrote I should bring toilet paper. Of all the things I imagined packing, never would I have chosen toilet paper! Many of you kind readers also mentioned paying to use a bathroom, and I assure you this is a luxury I am willing to pay for. I may have some residual PTSD after a little occurrence in France where I had food poisoning and not a soul would let me use their restroom.
I Went, I Saw, I Partied: My Actual Mardi Gras Experience
Our very first Mardi Gras experience was accidental. Our house was stricken with the dreaded flu. It was a Sunday, so we headed to the urgent care to make sure poor Weston didn’t have an ear infection as well. As we exited the Urgent Care we realized that we were indeed at our very first parade, Little Rascals. Weston, still clad in his PJ’s from a bad night, perked up long enough to catch his first beads, and it might have been right there that our love for Mardi Gras began to grow.
The next weekend we ventured out for not one but two days of Uptown parades. We packed, as instructed, nearly our whole house and headed towards St. Charles. Chairs and coolers in tow we lugged our belongings right up to the edge of the street and were practically invited to sit up front by the friendly patrons. Let me just say in Miami, no one invites you to sit in front of them, quite the opposite actually. We picnicked under the Oaks and sipped ice cold beers while visiting with friends. It was festive, it was friendly; it was a great time. There was nothing that felt unsafe (except maybe the ladders) about these parades. There was nothing uncomfortable about our experience. The crazy color combo of green, gold (I give in!) and purple even kind of began to grow on me. Looks pretty when you’re all wearing it in solidarity!
This past weekend, as the Mardi Gras festivities seemed to accelerate, we set our sites Uptown and hit up Magazine Street (this was back in 2013, to be clear) with friends. Just when I thought I had come to terms with being a “Neutral ground kind of girl” things were changed up on me and I had no choice but enjoy the sidewalk. I was curious to see if the closer to Fat Tuesday we got, the crazier and less family friendly things would get. Sure there was quite a bit of drinking but it seemed for the most part everyone kept their wits about them. I am happy to report that things were more family friendly than ever! At one point a little boy threw up and random parade goers made sure he was ok and then helped to clean up the sidewalk so no one would step in it (as the girl who would have for SURE stepped in it, I for one really appreciated this). Later in the day I observed a little girl that broke her prize set of beads. Her face immediately melted into a look of despair. A nearby father, unrelated to the girl, ran over to give her his identical set of enormous beads. The same girl later paid it forward by giving one of her prized catches away to another little one. Talk about life lessons at the parade!
Please don’t hate me, or think that I am judging you, but I am going to be honest and publicly admit I am not sure I can ever put my child on a ladder. I know this ladder thing is kind of like putting water in the bathtub to some New Orleanians during Mardi Gras, however this nervous Mama just can’t handle it. When I saw the rows and rows of ladders, sometimes 10 deep on Saint Charles, I pictured a large set of dominoes toppling over sideways. Despite my mental domino-esque imagery I have learned in my life to never say “never.” Who knows how I will feel about this in the coming years as my boy becomes more capable of defending his teeth from beads. My ladder apprehension aside, I am really now enamored with Mardi Gras. I was lucky enough to have a close friend fly up from Florida with her little girl to experience their first Mardi Gras. I found myself so proud to show her what a fun and amazing time the parades were. Her little girl’s face when she caught her pink feather boa is one that I will never forget. Nor will I ever forget dancing in the streets alongside my family, my dear old friend, and my new found New Orleans friends with their beautiful babies. This event is truly not about the beads or the party but instead it is about the feeling of fraternity, happiness, and unity in the quest for a great day of festivities and unforgettable memories. NOLA, my friends, truly knows how to have a good time. I think I’m falling in love with this city…
I’m with you on the ladders! I had grand visions of a triple ladder for my three boys, but never got around to getting one. But this weekend, someone let one of my boys use their ladder and it felt so top-heavy and unstable. We’ll stick to the ground, thank you very much. 🙂
A triple ladder would have been impressive though Pam! That being said happy to stay on the ground with you for right now.
Awesome post Karen!! The ladders are great!! In all of my years parading I have yet to see any topple over or any child fall out. It takes time but you will get there, we all do 🙂 Glad you are beginning to love our city!!!
Thanks Amy! Like I said “never” say never! Give me another two years and who knows? Maybe I will be on a ladder too!
We are ladder people- Of course, we stand up there with Andrew to protect him from getting hit with anything hard- but this way he can see all of the floats and such as they ride by!
But I can see where someone who isn’t comfortable with them may be unsure about them. I think it is all a personal/family decision!
We are ladder people, someone always stands on the back of the ladder but for me it’s the safest place for the little ones to be. No worry about them running into the street or getting lost. Added bonus, I don’t have to hold her the whole time!
I’m glad you loved it. NOLA people are unlike any others! 😉
Its true Mindy. I had no idea what to expect when I came to this city. The people are lovely and it has been wonderful!
Great post! I also love the fraternity/community aspect. I could care less about catching anything, but I love all the relaxed conversation, block parties, and time with family!
Hey Karen! Great post! I’m so glad that you are finding the true gems of the city! I have a friend whose mother was also a NICU nurse at Children’s her entire career, she also does not let her kids/grandkids anywhere close to them. She says that she saw too many accidents at the hospital. You’re right to be concerned. We have one, but we don’t bring it to crazy parades. I think you just have to be smart about it. We also never leave the kids up there unattended. There is always a large male holding anchor. (As you can see on my page)! They’re not for everyone, but with two kids, it’s much easier to keep track of the kids and still have a good time ourselves.
Now that all this craziness is over, I’m looking forward to real life! Now my recommendation is to ride in a krewe! Simply AMAZING!
Great post! As you know, we like the ladder. I grew up watching parades from seat of a ladder. I was definitely nervous this year as this was our first year as parents with the ladder. We set up back away from the crowd of ladders and people. Less interested in being up close, more interested in keeping him off of the ground and not trying to hold him for an entire parade. I feel best when one adult is on the ladder to deflect beads and another is at the bottom, making sure it’s steady. :).
I don’t want to make anyone feel bad, but the ladder situation is quite serious. A child was killed in the ’80s when his ladder toppled and he fell beneath a float. While I only know of this one incident where a child was crushed to death, there are smaller injuries that happen all the time– these ladders are a serious risk, and need to be treated very seriously. They should be back from the curb, and parents should be physically holding on to the ladder at all times.