Of course, I want my children to understand that Christmas is not all about what Santa brings and what mommy and daddy put under the tree. Not to mention all the gifts they receive from family members. My hope is for them to grow up to be charitable and kind to those who are most in need. For the past several years, I have donated in some capacity to an individual or organization. However, the way I carried this out was not necessarily visible to my children. I had to acknowledge that my actions were not in line with this fundamental concept I was hoping to ingrain within them. This year, I decided to involve my oldest child as I feel he is at an age where he can understand at some level. I am adding this to our family Christmas traditions, including experiences such as Celebration in the Oaks, watching Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer, and writing letters to Santa.
I encourage you to involve your children this holiday season when giving to those less fortunate, just as Courtney shared her ideas for focusing outward last week. In an effort to assist, I have compiled a list of suggestions that is in no way intended to be exclusive. Give back in a way that feels natural to you and is realistically attainable.
Volunteering
It goes without saying that the holidays are a time of financial struggle for many. My suggestion to give more should not be misconstrued. There are many ways to give that do not involve writing a check (or a swipe of your credit card). If time is what you have to give, think about having your children write letters to residents of a local retirement home, such as to Christwood Retirement Community, or to patients at Children’s Hospital. If you have older children, perhaps sign up to volunteer at the local Habitat for Humanity. Finally, the St. Tammany Project Christmas offers a wide range of opportunities to give back whether it be your time or money.
Toys/Clothes/Miscellaneous Gifts
For the past several years I have tried to make some sort of charitable donation
Financial Contributions
Any charitable organization, including those mentioned throughout this post, relies on donated funds in order to survive. If you are in a position where you are blessed enough to be able to do so, financial contributions will always be welcomed and appreciated.
I hope this has inspired you to give to a person who is less fortunate than you this holiday season. In doing so, no matter how big or small, you are sure to warm your own heart, and most importantly, make a difference in the life of a stranger. An added bonus: this opportunity is a teachable moment for your children.