A Day for Mom :: Meeting Mother’s Day Expectations
A few years ago, I wrote a blog A Card is Not Enough after having a discussion with my husband about gift-giving expectations. Everyone is different, but personally, I came to the conclusion that for mom-related holidays, I really do expect a little gesture from my husband (kid crafts, cards, and homemade gifts are always welcome!)
As one of my dear friends reminds me, you just have to tell them! (the husbands, she means). So this year, when my husband kindly asked what I would like for Mother’s Day, I didn’t give some coy answer expecting some telepathic response from my dear husband. I just let him know that I would like my garden finished (he’s a fantastic landscaper and he’s almost done), fresh flowers, and a bottle of wine. That’s it.
He smiled and said, “Ok. Easy enough.” I’m sure we’ll also do something fun with the kids, visit our moms, and have a relaxing weekend. Usually, I want to have as little planned as possible on Mother’s Day weekend. The relaxation in itself is a gift!
What’s your take on be specific and direct when someone (your husband) asks what you would like for a gift? Do you hope he’ll just figure something out, or do you ask for something (send an Amazon link) that you really want?
Happy Mother’s Day to all the mommas out there, the grandmothers, step-moms, and soon-to-be moms. It’s a gift to even have the privilege to be a mom. I’m so thankful for our kiddos. (But flowers are still a nice gesture.)
