Grandparents, Thank You For Being a Part of my Child’s Life
Every family dynamic is different. Some children grow up and have a wonderful relationship with their parents. Some had a rough start and no longer are a part of each other’s life. It’s a common phrase, you’ll see when you have kids one day. This could not be more true.
I have always had a close wonderful relationship with my parents. I knew that someday they would become amazing grandparents. They’ve been that and more. I was lucky to marry a man who also had a close relationship with his parents. Blessed to have my daughter have another set of grandparents who love her immensely.
This is not the same for every family. Personally, I had one close, loving set of grandparents. I was the only grandchild and the light of my grandmother’s eyes. Her husband, my grandfather, died when I was 2. I did not get the years with him like I wish we had, but my grandmother always said I softened his heart; that he loved me greatly. My grandmother was the kind of grandparent I prayed my child would have one day. We made countless memories that I cherish so much. They shaped the woman I am today. The loving, nurturing grandmother I grew up with was my hero, much like my mom.
I had another set of grandparents. They were in my life, not often and not as loving. I realize they loved me in their own way. I thank them for giving me my mom. For having my amazing aunt. They were not the loving and nurturing kind. Honestly, I can’t fault them. It was probably the way they were raised. It is also not their obligation to be a part of their grandchild’s life. They lived life the way they wanted and I’m glad it brought them joy. I got the love I needed from my paternal grandmother and that was enough for me.
When I became a mom, all I ever wanted was to be a loving mother. I strive every day to make sure my daughter knows how loved she is by her father and me. What I feel most blessed about is that my girl has the most amazing support system of both sets of grandparents. From personal experience, I know that is not the case for everyone. I am beyond blessed. She is beyond blessed. The love both sets of grandparents show my girl; it’s beautiful. Any achievement she makes, they’re there cheering her on. Any show she is in, they are there with their cameras rolling and flowers for her. Every birthday, early morning or days ahead to help this momma and show their love for her. Any sickness she has had, they’ve shown up with some Vicks and chicken soup.
It is not about the gifts or the money; the presence is what matters. My mom is a saint and is so supportive of me and of my child. My mother in law, she’s an angel. If you have grandparents that are in your child’s life, thank them. They are choosing to be a part of your child’s life. They raised you and know how helpful it is to you to be a part of their grandchild’s life. They know how crucial the love of a grandparent is in the development of children. Thank your lucky stars and thank those amazing grandparents.
