I find myself as the mom of three tween boys. I have no idea how this happened. Fifteen minutes ago they were in diapers. Ten minutes ago they were into Thomas the Tank Engine, and five minutes ago they started losing their teeth. Now they’re getting good at sarcasm and air quotes but they still sleep with stuffed animals. We’re getting dangerously close to puberty. What the heck?
So forgive me if I get this part wrong, but here’s my strategy so far.
1. Bought a book a few years ago on “how babies are made.” Left it lying around. Kind of awkwardly pointed towards it and said, “uh, you can read that if you want.” It was ignored and is gathering dust on their bookshelf.
2. Buy a stick of all-natural deodorant. You know, just in case.
3. Found a class at the Parenting Center for dads and boys. Tried to sweet talk my husband into taking them. Haven’t succeeded yet.
3b. Get husband’s friend with similarly aged-boy to take his kid also. That way, they can all giggle through the class together, and get beer together afterwards. (Just the husbands. Probably.)
4. Bought another book. This time it’s about puberty and sex and hormones and all sorts of stuff. It’s still in the Amazon package.
6. Realize he’s probably going to tell his brothers to expect “the chat” at their upcoming lunch dates, and predict it won’t go so smoothly. Lightning doesn’t strike twice. Or three times, for that matter. Oh well. One out of three ain’t bad, right?
7. Wait in terror for body odor, pimples, and all the other trappings of puberty.